HOW TO PROPOSE
WHAT TO BRING, WHAT TO DO, AND WHO TO CALL
The Ultimate Guide to Proposing: What to Do, What to Bring, and Who to Call
Planning to pop the question? Here's your ultimate checklist for a smooth, thoughtful, and unforgettable proposal — whether it’s a grand gesture or an intimate moment.
1. Before the Proposal: Plan with Intention
Know Your Partner's Preferences
Private or public moment?
Flashy or low-key?
Photographer or just the two of you? (CONTACT THE PHOTOGRAPHER WELL IN ADVANCE!)
Get the Ring (or a stand-in)
Research styles or go ring shopping together in advance.
Don’t stress if you don’t have the perfect ring yet — a placeholder ring can still make the moment magical.
Ask for Blessings (if important to them)
Some traditions still value a thoughtful conversation with a parent or guardian.
2. Choose the Right Location
Ideas:
The place you first met or had your first date
A scenic overlook or private garden
At home with a custom setup
During a planned “photo shoot” (with a surprise ending)
Tip:
Scout the location beforehand to consider factors such as lighting, weather, privacy, and noise.
3. What to Bring on the Day
The ring (double-check!)
Mints or water
Tissues (for happy tears)
Backup plan for rain or unexpected events
4. Capture the Moment
Option 1: Hire a Photographer or Videographer
Discreet pros can capture the moment from afar — then you can roll into a mini engagement shoot right after.
Option 2: Ask a Friend
If you're going casual, a close friend can help snap the shot with a smartphone or camera.
5. Who to Call (Before and After)
BEFORE:
Photographer (if hiring)
Planner or stylist (if you’re doing a custom setup)
Venue (if reserving a location or space)
Family/Friends (if part of the moment)
AFTER:
Immediate family and close friends
Your favorite restaurant for a celebration dinner
A wedding planner (if you're ready to dive in!)
6. After the "Yes" — Celebrate Right
Have champagne or a picnic ready
Set up a post-proposal dinner
Share the moment (when you're ready) on social or with a private announcement
Proposing Is Personal — Keep It Authentic
You don’t need a drone, fireworks, or a flash mob. A well-thought-out, heartfelt proposal that reflects your relationship will always be the most memorable.
